I am not the kind of lady to drop half a paycheck on a new purse.  I am not the kind of lady to get my nails done or to give into the coveted designer shoes - however much I might ogle them.  But, I am the kind of lady that will spontaneously treat myself to a pound of fresh, locally caught crab at the farmer’s market for a casual Sunday afternoon feast.  These are the things we do, not because we have to, but because life is so much fun with a few treats sprinkled in.